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What you
actually find is that the amount that you need to live
on is already at breaking point. You have been
creatively paying bills and creditors for a number of
months before getting the hi-fi. You are spending many
hours each week trying to pay your bills with what
little cash you have.
Finally
it hits you! You cannot pay your creditors with your
income. It is at this point that you decide whom you
will pay and who will have to wait. However, the
creditor that you decided not to pay is the one that has
issued the court papers….
3. One Day at a Time
When
we were children we all said to ourselves, "when I get
older I am going to buy…" and do we!
If
only we stuck to our then dreams: biscuits, pop, toys
(my pledge to myself was a bunch of ‘bananas’, sad, but
true).
This
article is not about psychology or how you were brought
up, but there is obviously a link between them and what
we want, what we can have and our action to totally
ignore the affordability of ‘it’. Buying nice things,
and not necessarily for ourselves, cheers us up. We can
have things that would otherwise be a dream – like a new
car, or even just a decent holiday.
Who’s to Blame
In a
world where a diamond can cost £20 million, a footballer
gets £60,000 per week and satellite television
subscription can be as much as 20% of an average wage in
some areas, the urge to get your little bit of something
is strong.
If
lenders make it possible for you to have something today
that you could not buy outright, and you subsequently
fail to maintain repayment for whatever reason the
‘blame’ lays... NOWHERE.
As a
borrower, you should not undertake a commitment that you
know you cannot afford. This does not mean that you have
to know that you will always be able to pay what is due:
you do not know what is round the ‘corner of life’ and
if it turns out that you cannot make the repayment the
lender has a responsibility to act in a human (and not
business-like) way. It is not 'human' to take a consumer
to court in a bid to remove their house contents by a
sheriff or bailiff. Admittedly, many large lenders will
not pursue such measures, but, if they then sell those
debts to third party debt collectors, they will
use any means available. |